My 8-year-old son started sleeping on the floor outside his grandma’s bedroom — and at 4 a.m., I heard him whisper, “I won’t let Uncle Craig do it to Grandma again.”

“It means somebody loves you,” he said seriously. “And they’re listening.”

I had to turn away and pretend to fix the coffee urn.

In March, a woman I’d never met pulled me aside after a session.

She was in her seventies, with a cane and very careful hair.

“My nephew wanted me to sign something last week,” she said quietly. “I told him I needed to ask my pastor. I didn’t know why. But I remembered what your mother said, about the thing under the words.”

Her eyes were wet.

“I haven’t signed anything. I just wanted to say thank you.”

I told her to go home and call Hank.

I told her she’d done exactly right.

The first warm Sunday of spring, after everyone had gone, I found my mother in the empty gym, folding chairs.

“You’re not supposed to lift those.”

“Dr. Patel said no more than twenty pounds.”

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