My parents had supported her because my compliance had become part of the household routine.
Every time I stayed quiet to preserve peace, they treated the silence as permission for the next demand.
“You did not think I agreed,” I said. “You thought I could be forced to agree.”
Harper began crying.
“Do you know what it’s like being your sister? You disappear for months, you never explain anything, and then military vehicles show up like you’re some important person in a movie.”
“I am not in a movie.”
“You made us look insignificant.”
“I was trying to stay alive and keep other people safe.”
She became quiet.
For years, my family had interpreted secrecy as rejection because that explanation protected their pride.
It was easier to believe David and I considered ourselves too important for them than to accept that some parts of our lives could not be shared.